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Why We Can’t Stop Crushing on Queer Villains (Even When They’re Trying to Burn Down the World)

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Okay, so hear me out: queer-coded villains in fantasy are kind of… irresistible. Not in a “yay, evil!” way (though sometimes, yes, also that), but in that messy, juicy, fascinating way where you’re halfway through a book or movie and suddenly realizing you’d rather spend three hours in a morally complex debate with the villain than go to brunch with the hero. Like, yeah, they’re probably about to summon an ancient shadow beast or stab someone in the back with an obsidian dagger shaped like a bat wing, but also? They’re making a point.

Let’s just get this out of the way first: the queer villain trope has a long, messy history. Historically, a lot of them were coded as queer because writers couldn’t openly make characters LGBTQ+ without network censors freaking out. So instead, we got the slinky, sarcastic, well-dressed, emotionally repressed villain with perfect eyeliner and a penchant for elaborate monologues. Think Scar from The Lion King, or Jafar from Aladdin. (Disney, we see you.)

But here’s where it gets interesting: somewhere along the way, the queerness became part of what made them compelling, not just threatening. These characters often live outside the rules of the world around them. They’re not afraid to be other, to lean into their difference, to challenge systems. And for a lot of queer folks—myself included—there’s something deeply cathartic about watching a character who’s been rejected or misunderstood flip the whole system the bird and build their own tower of power. (Maybe literally.)

One of my forever favorites is Melisandre from Game of Thrones. Okay, yes, she’s technically not queer-coded in a sexual orientation sense (though I dare you to find a straighter woman who births a smoke demon). But she’s deliciously Other, mysterious, powerful, devoted to something everyone else thinks is nuts, and unapologetically herself. There’s something inherently queer in that rejection of social norms and that extravagant performance of belief.

Then there’s Loki. Ah, Loki. Tom Hiddleston smirking through ten thousand morally ambiguous decisions in Thor and The Avengers. Canonically genderfluid and pansexual in Norse mythology—and finally acknowledged as such (sort of) in the Disney+ series—Loki is the poster child for the chaotic queer archetype. Mischief isn’t just his title, it’s a lifestyle. And somehow, even while lying to literally everyone and trying to take over Asgard, he’s still sympathetic. Because underneath all the trickery is that wounded kid who was never enough for his dad. That hits harder than a Mjölnir to the gut.

But let’s not forget our literary babes. The Picture of Dorian Gray is practically one long queer villain origin story. Dorian is gorgeous, narcissistic, and fully corrupted by Lord Henry’s flamboyant nihilism. There’s something deeply seductive about watching him fall—gracefully, glamorously—into darkness. Oscar Wilde, who wrote it while living in Victorian England and facing actual prison for being gay, wasn’t exactly being subtle. The real tragedy? Dorian’s villainy isn’t just aesthetic—it’s a metaphor for repression, and what happens when desire gets buried too deep.

Now, obviously, it’s important to draw the line between complex characters and damaging stereotypes. We’ve had enough “the gay guy dies horribly because of his evil ways” stories, thanks. But when done right—when they’re not just queer-coded, but queer—these villains become something else. They stop being symbols of danger and start becoming avatars of agency. Power doesn’t have to look noble or straight. Sometimes, it looks like Ursula the Sea Witch, repurposed from Divine the drag queen and singing “Poor Unfortunate Souls” like she owns the ocean. (Which, let’s be honest, she kind of does.)

And then there’s Castlevania’s Carmilla. Oh my god. She’s like if you took every power-hungry, femme-fatale vampire trope and wrapped it in velvet and bisexual rage. The way she struts through that show—dripping sarcasm, rolling her eyes at incompetent men, and plotting world domination like it’s a wine tasting—it’s art. She’s not queer-coded. She’s queer, full stop. And she’s tired of men screwing everything up. Hard relate.

And while we’re on vampires: Interview with the Vampire‘s Lestat. Good lord, Lestat. I’m not saying Tom Cruise was giving deliberate queer energy in the 1994 version (though I am saying that), but in the recent AMC adaptation? It’s full tilt. The man is drama incarnate. He turns people into vampires because he’s lonely, throws blood tantrums when his undead boyfriends don’t love him enough, and monologues like a Shakespearean theater kid in eyeliner. It’s not just compelling—it’s vampiric gay chaos with a body count.

Let’s pop over to comics for a second—because you cannot talk about queer villains without tipping your hat to Mystique from X-Men. Shapeshifter, bisexual icon, deeply jaded revolutionary? Yes, yes, and hell yes. She’s one of those characters who is constantly blurring the line between right and wrong, self and other. Her queerness isn’t just in who she loves (though yes, Destiny, we know), it’s in her refusal to be fixed or defined. She literally changes her body whenever she wants. That’s pretty queer, philosophically speaking.

And She-Ra and the Princesses of Power gave us Catra. Look, if you didn’t feel something watching that emotionally damaged, jealous, brilliant lesbian cat-girl struggle with her feelings for Adora while also trying to conquer Etheria… I don’t know, maybe your heart is made of beige carpet. Catra is a modern blueprint for the queer villain-turned-antihero: traumatized, defiant, full of unprocessed affection and rage. And her redemption arc? Gorgeous. But even when she was Bad™? Still compelling as hell.

Quick detour into video games: Dragon Age: Inquisition gave us Samson, a tragic fallen Templar with an implied queerness that feels less token-y and more baked into the heartbreak of his character. He’s not evil because he’s queer—he’s a villain despite being queer, and the queerness is just part of his messy humanity. And don’t get me started on Final Fantasy villains like Kuja from FFIX, whose entire vibe is “gender is a prison and I’m showing up to the ball in feathers and vengeance.” Iconic.

And if we’re talking animated brilliance, let’s not skip over HIM from The Powerpuff Girls. Look, I know it’s a kid’s show, but HIM was doing devil drag before most of us knew what that even was. High heels, cravat, lobster claws, and a falsetto that could slice glass—he scared the crap out of me and made me question the gender binary. Duality, baby.

Bottom line? These villains stick with us not just because they’re queer or fabulous or damaged (though, sure, all of that), but because they’re multidimensional. They’re allowed to be vain and vicious and vulnerable and seductive and petty and powerful. They’re not just queer-coded throwaways anymore—they’re whole damn people, and we crave that.

I’d love to keep going, honestly, because once you start unearthing these characters, it becomes this little queer archaeology project: “Oh, this is why I was obsessed with Maleficent at age eight.” (Wings? Horns? The cheekbones?? Come on.)

Honestly, maybe what we love most about these characters is that they feel like they’ve had to fight for every inch of themselves. They’ve often been rejected, othered, and pushed to the margins—and instead of folding, they get fabulous. They sharpen their claws. They set the world on fire, but with style. And even when we know we shouldn’t root for them… we kind of do anyway.

So yeah. If your villain has emotional baggage, sparkling dialogue, and an aura of tragic fabulousness, there’s a good chance I’m rooting for them. Or at least writing fanfic in my head.

P.S. If you’ve got a favorite queer villain, send ‘em my way. I’m always looking to expand my League of Fabulous Evil.

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Magical Ride-or-Dies and Why I’d Be Dead Without Mine

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So the other day, I was rereading this queer fantasy book where the main character is this awkward mage who can barely cast a spell without catching his sleeves on fire—and somehow still manages to save the realm. Classic. But you know what really stuck with me this time? His friends. Like, not the hot vampire love interest (though I’m always here for that drama), but the sweet cinnamon roll of a healer who patched him up after every bad decision, the sarcastic rogue who risked her life for him even though she’d never admit it, and the grumpy mentor who said maybe five nice things in the entire book and every one of them made me cry.

It hit me, hard, how often queer fantasy heroes survive not just because they’re “the chosen one,” but because they’ve got people behind them whispering, “You’ve got this,” or in some cases yelling, “For the love of dragons, stop trying to die!”

Supportive friendships in fantasy? They’re everything. Especially when you’re writing or reading stories with queer characters. Because let’s be honest—being queer, whether in a magical kingdom or small-town America, can feel like wandering into a dark forest without a map. There are monsters out there. Some look like literal demons. Others sound like your aunt at Thanksgiving asking if “you’ve met any nice girls yet.” And in both cases, having allies matters.

In queer fantasy, those allies often show up as the ride-or-die best friend, the surprisingly progressive dwarven blacksmith, or the found family of scrappy rebels who don’t care who you love as long as you can hold your own in a tavern brawl. These characters might not be the stars of the story, but they’re the ones who build the safety net. And speaking from experience—having that net in real life? It’s not just comforting. It’s life-changing.

I think one of the reasons these dynamics hit so hard is because queer folks know the value of chosen family better than almost anyone. For many of us, the traditional support system either fell short or straight-up vanished. So we build our own. And when we see those relationships mirrored in fantasy worlds—whether it’s two witches sticking up for each other at coven meetings or an elven archer defending her trans brother against a bigoted king—it’s more than representation. It’s recognition.

And it doesn’t always have to be a heavy, trauma-drenched thing, either. Sometimes it’s just a best friend holding your hand while you come out to the guild. Or casting a glamour spell so you can wear what makes you feel like you without the villagers getting weird. Or throwing a “you survived another heartbreak” party with goblin-made cake. (Please tell me I’m not the only one who needs that last one.)

One of my favorite examples is Jesper and Wylan from Six of Crows. Sure, they’re love interests, but they’re also allies to each other’s traumas, quirks, and past screw-ups. And I’ll never stop shouting about The House in the Cerulean Sea, where literally every character is some form of found family ally and I melted into a little puddle of feelings. Like, give me a sword and a supportive queer sidekick who tells me I’m valid while we storm the necromancer’s tower, and I am set for life.

Anyway, I guess what I’m trying to say is: magic helps, but what really saves us—again and again—is friendship. The real kind. The kind that sees you, holds space for you, and walks through the fire with you. Whether that fire is metaphorical (like dealing with rejection) or actual (dragon attack—oops), knowing someone’s got your back makes all the difference.

So here’s to the allies. The magical ones. The mundane ones. The messy, imperfect, fiercely loyal ones. May we always write them, celebrate them, and be them.

Catch you later, chosen ones. And if you ever need backup on your next quest, emotional or otherwise—I’ve got snacks and sarcasm ready to go.


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Urban Fantasy Madness

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Okay, so I’ve been thinking a lot lately about how urban fantasy does this amazing thing where it sneaks important conversations into our brains through the backdoor of supernatural storytelling. You know what I mean? Like, you’re reading about vampires and werewolves, but suddenly you’re also contemplating systemic racism and environmental destruction. Pretty sneaky, right?

I gotta tell you about this fascinating thing I came across – according to Barnes & Noble’s literary blog, fantasy writers use supernatural beings as metaphors to tackle controversial issues in ways that might be too intense to discuss directly. It’s like putting on magical glasses that help us see our own world more clearly.

Take N.K. Jemisin’s work, for instance. This amazing author creates these incredible urban landscapes where magic users face discrimination that mirrors real-world prejudices. It’s wild how reading about magical beings fighting for their rights makes us think about our own society’s struggles with equality.

And then there’s this thing that’s been happening in newer urban fantasy – addressing climate change through magical catastrophes. Like, imagine a world where nature spirits are dying because of pollution, or where magical ley lines are getting messed up because of urban development. It hits different when you see environmental destruction through a magical lens, doesn’t it?

Here’s something that blew my mind – urban fantasy actually started getting super popular during times of major social upheaval. It’s like we needed these supernatural metaphors to process all the crazy stuff happening in the real world. It wouldn’t surprise me if urban fantasy surges in popularity in the coming days, seeing how crazy things are in the world right now.

And you know what’s really cool? The way different authors handle prejudice in their magical worlds. Some books have vampires dealing with “coming out of the coffin” to society, which totally parallels LGBTQ+ rights movements. Others show magical beings facing housing discrimination or workplace prejudice – stuff that’s painfully real for many people today.

I recently read this incredible series where faeries were being forced out of their traditional lands by urban development – it’s basically gentrification with pointy ears, but it made me think about real communities facing similar issues. The author threw in these incredibly detailed descriptions of magical protection spells that felt as real as any neighborhood watch program.

Let me share this random but true fact I found: According to a study published in the Critical Studies in Media Communication journal, supernatural fiction experienced a significant surge in popularity during periods of social unrest, particularly in the 1960s and early 2000s. It’s like we collectively turn to these stories when we need to process complicated social issues.

Some of my favorite examples are the subtle ways authors weave in commentary about power dynamics. You’ve got these powerful magical councils that are totally stand-ins for corrupt governments, and rebel mages fighting against unfair systems. Sound familiar? It should!

The thing I love most about urban fantasy is how it makes us question our own prejudices. When you find yourself sympathizing with a werewolf who can’t get a job because of discrimination, it really makes you think about real-world bias, doesn’t it?

Until next time, keep reading and questioning everything!

P.S. Drop a comment below with your favorite urban fantasy books that tackle social issues – I’m always looking for new reads!

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