Ghosts, Grit, and Guys Who Kiss—Why I Write Gay Male Heroes in Supernatural Worlds
So let me tell you something weird and very specific about me (and maybe you can relate, maybe you’ll just smile and nod politely): I’ve always been that guy who wanted the vampire hunter to kiss his brooding male companion instead of rescuing the blonde ingenue. And not just kiss him—but, like, really go through something together first. Blood, betrayal, maybe a deal with a demon that leaves emotional scars. You know. The good stuff.
I write gay male heroes in gritty, supernatural worlds because that’s the kind of story I craved growing up—and let’s just say the pickings were slim if you wanted queer characters who weren’t tragic sidekicks, sassy best friends, or some blink-and-you’ll-miss-it coded glance across a smoky bar.
Nope. I wanted haunted alleyways, cursed antiques, moonlit rooftops, and dudes falling in love while dodging ghosts with knives. I wanted longing and horror. Leather jackets and emotional repression. Soulmates and salt circles.
Why supernatural?
There’s just something deliciously cathartic about supernatural settings. Everything’s turned up to eleven. The stakes are literally life and death (or, you know, un-death), and the emotional terrain gets all twisty and intense. It’s messy. Dangerous. Romantic in a way that actually feels risky.
And as a queer person? Yeah, I relate to that. A lot of us grew up having to live in the shadows, second-guessing our gut feelings, trying to figure out which parts of ourselves were “safe” to show. That kind of double life? That’s vampire material right there. That’s shapeshifter. That’s cursed oracle. The metaphor is practically glowing in neon.
Why gritty supernatural?
Because I don’t do fluff well. I mean, don’t get me wrong—I love a sweet story with two dudes baking cupcakes and falling in love over an enchanted mixer, but when I write, I’m chasing something darker. Not grimdark-for-the-sake-of-it, but raw. Ugly. Honest.
I want my heroes bruised, emotionally and otherwise. I want them cracking jokes while bleeding out in a haunted speakeasy. I want them kissing like it’s a last meal. And I want magic to be beautiful and terrifying. Because that’s how the world often feels. Especially when you’re queer.
A lot of queer folks live in survival mode for a while. We become hyper-aware, emotionally nimble, a little cynical. That’s why I love dropping gay male heroes into these pressure-cooker worlds. I want to show how they rise—how they still choose connection, even when everything in them says “nope, too risky, shut it down.”
My favorite kinds of guys to write?
Give me the reluctant hero. The loner. The ex-cop with a demon in his basement and a cigarette habit he keeps swearing he’ll quit. The medium who didn’t ask to see ghosts, thank you very much. The snarky necromancer who falls for the grim reaper. (Still mad that hasn’t been done more, by the way.)
These men are complicated. They’re not always soft or shiny or good at feelings. But they care. And they fight. Not just the monsters in the shadows, but their own trauma, their own guilt, their own belief that they don’t deserve love. Watching them find it anyway? That’s the part that gets me every time.
Why gay male heroes?
Because we need more of them. Not sanitized, side-character versions, but central, messy, sexy, real ones. We deserve stories that let us be the chosen ones. The cursed ones. The heroes and the disasters. I want gay characters who save the world and get the guy. Preferably while covered in blood and muttering something sarcastic.
And maybe, just maybe, I’m still writing for the younger version of me who sat in his childhood bedroom with a horror paperback in one hand and a spiral notebook in the other, dreaming up alternate endings where the monster hunter didn’t end up with the damsel—but with the other monster hunter. The one with the scar and the tragic past and the slow-burn yearning that never made it to the page.
Alright, that’s my ramble. If you’ve ever wanted to see queer guys get their hands dirty in stories full of ghosts, demons, and supernatural what-the-hellery, then hey, welcome to the club. The blood’s fresh, the magic’s weird, and the boys? They’re just trying to survive—and maybe fall in love before the next curse hits.
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Did you know that the Ghost Oracle series is now available in a box set (ebook only)? It’s broken out into two sets: Books 1-3 and Books 4-6
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