My Neighbors – the Crows

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Early spring, I noticed that two crows were hanging around a lot in the front yard. I didn’t think too much of it at first until I started seeing them gather up sticks and clumps of grass in their mouths and then fly to the top of a spruce tree in my yard. Ah — The crows were building a nest.

Unlike many people I know, I’ve always loved watching crows. They are extremely intelligent birds, and I find them absolutely fascinating. So I was pretty excited to learn that I would have a family of crows living in my yard — though I will admit that I was kind of dreading the noise.

What I noticed first off was how watchful the parent crows were before the little one was even born. I saw that whenever I walked into the bathroom, a crow flew down to the telephone pole outside. At first, I thought it was a coincidence, but pretty soon realized that apparently, it noticed movement from my bathroom came to investigate. That being said, I soon noticed that there was always one of them on lookout duty, either in a tree watching or on a wire or pole. They would fly around the parameter of our property in the same circle, patrolling on a regular basis. Intruders such as hawks or owls were quickly and ruthlessly driven from the neighborhood.

I found it particularly interesting that they also drove out all the squirrels in the neighborhood. Every time I saw a squirrel in the front yard, a crow would immediately swoop down to attack it and would continue to do so until the rodent ran across the street. Though we think of squirrels as basically vegetarians, they are known to eat the eggs of other birds (and maybe even baby birds as well).

When the baby crow was born, that’s when the fun began! I’m not sure how many offspring crows typically have at a time, but these two had only one, which we nicknamed “Junior.” I sat for hours on my deck watching the parent crows teach Junior how to fly, how to land properly on a branch, how to land on a wire next to the telephone pole, not in the middle of the wire, etc. It seemed as though there were carrying on detailed conversations at times — and who knows, maybe they were.

One day, four other crows appeared in the yard, and they spent the day hanging out with “my” three crows. We joked that Auntie, Uncle, and the cousins came by to see the new baby.

Surprisingly, the crows were not all that noisy. It was mainly the baby crow that concerned me as I know from experience that begging, baby birds can make a horrendous racket (I pitched a tent once near a nest housing a baby Kestrel – huge mistake!). Junior wasn’t all that noisy though there is a lot of cawing going on as the crows converse back and forth.

I found it surprising how much the crows got used to us. Crows often are very shy around people and tend not to get too close. These crows pay us no mind at all. One landed on the railing of the deck next to me, not more than five feet away. When we leave the house, they never fly off — just sit and watch. However, if we have a visitor, that’s different — the crows stay far away. It appears as if they specifically recognize us and know that we’re okay.

Some of you may find this all a bit silly — gushing about a family of crows. But it’s really been quite a bit of fun watching them and learning more about these fascinating birds. I’m curious to see how long they’ll stick around.

Stay tuned for more crow updates.

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New Drive-In Excursion to The Kiltie

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My summer drive-in tour season 2 continues. Today we scootered to the Kiltie drive-in located in Oconomowoc, WI, about an hour ride from my house. It was about an hour away from where I live, so it made for quite a pleasant ride. What’s fun about this place is that it’s “kilt-themed,” and all the employees even wear kilts. Given that I’m Irish (don’t be fooled by the Finnish name!), this was a massive plus for me.

They had an excellent selection of menu items, and the food we ordered was delicious. There were several other things that I hope to try in future visits.

Again, what made this place really stand out was the super-friendly and fun staff. I found this to be the case at the majority of drive-ins that I’ve visited. The employees, for some reason, seemed extra amicable and willing to please. It’s an excellent way to ensure repeat business, at least from me.

Not sure where or when the next drive-in outing will be, but there will be one. Not that I ever need an excuse to play hookey for a couple of hours during the week and go for a scooter ride.

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New Morning Routine

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In the past, my morning routine involved getting up, having coffee, spending an hour (or two!) browsing through my newsfeeds, and then buckling down and getting to work. But what I found was that often, work was really a chore. I struggled to get the words down on paper, and some days I didn’t do a very good job of it. I’ve tried writing in the middle of the afternoon, but that was even worse.

Then one day, after I poured my morning coffee, I decided to skip browsing the news and instead dive directly into working on my latest novel. Before I barely finished my second cup of coffee, I had already written 2,200 words. I was amazed — stunned, actually — at how smoothly and quickly the words came.

I tried it again the following day, and sure enough, the words poured from me like a faucet. I began to suspect I was on to something here. I’ve always believed that I could never delve into the day’s work before I’ve had my morning coffee, perused the news and answered my emails. After all, it’s what I’ve always done. Yet this was different, and it worked. I tried it again and again on subsequent mornings, each time receiving the same result — increased and more effortless productivity.

Now, I’ve never been a morning person (more on that in another post), so I certainly never figured I’d be one to hop out of bed and begin tapping away on my keyboard… and yet, here we are.

I wanted to test this new theory of mine further, so the following morning, I reverted to my old habit of reading my email and scrolling through my newsfeed. When it came time to write, that familiar struggle was there, in which producing words was like pulling teeth. So I could only assume that….what, I’m a morning person?

Nah. What I do think is going on is that for me, creativity comes much more easily when I don’t have a brain cluttered with daily news, spam, obligations, and email messages that I need to address. I never realized how much that stuff affected my productivity and weighed me down. I appear to be more productive when I tackle my cognitive work right after I get up.

So that’s what I’m going to do from here on out because it appears to be working.

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Online Security & Privacy

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I’ve been on a security & privacy kick recently. I’ve always taken online security recently, but given all the hacks, phishing, and ransomware attacks as of late, I decided to up my game. Below are some of the things I did.

  1. Encrypted my cloud files. I realized many of the things that I had stored in the cloud contained sensitive information, such as credit card numbers listed on monthly statements. So using a program called Boxcryptor, I encrypted all the files on the cloud services that I use (Dropbox, Google Drive). So if the service ever got hacked or if someone gained access to my password, they’d be unable to read any of the files.
  2. Use a VPN. I used to always use a VPN whenever I was away from home and using public Wi-Fi, but I now use it full time, even when I’m in the house. A VPN is an encrypted tunnel between your device and the Internet and can help you maintain online safety and privacy. It hides your IP Address allowing you to browse privately without anyone tracking your online activity.
  3. Updated my passwords. I went through my password list and ensured that I didn’t reuse any passwords. I also changed them all to have at least 15 characters, including special symbols & capital letters. If there were passwords for sites or services I no longer used, I logged on and deleted my account.
  4. Encrypted my hard drive. Mac computers include a feature called File Vault, with which you can encrypt your entire hard drive. This way, if your computer is ever stolen, nobody will be able to read your files without knowing the encryption password.
  5. Encrypted my external drives. Mac computers also allow you to encrypt your external drives. All you need to do is right-click a drive from the Finder and choose “Encrypt” from the contextual menu. Again, anyone who accesses the drive will need to know the password in order to read the data on it.
  6. Froze my credit. I also put a freeze on my credit at each of the three big credit reporting agencies. This way, nobody will be able to open any accounts in my name unless they have the “unfreeze” codes that the companies provided to me.
  7. Use an encrypted email service. I signed up for an encrypted email service so that messages that I sent are encrypted both ways, as long as the person with whom I’m corresponding uses the same service. My emails are also stored in a super-secure site in Switzerland. This is important to me, given that many emails that I receive — such as credit card statements — contain sensitive information.
  8. Use a Password Manager. I’ve used a password manager for several years now and what I love most about them is that you no longer need to memorize your passwords or write them down on papers (where they could fall into the wrong hands) — simply copy and paste them directly from the app. This makes it easy to have lengthy and complicated passwords without fearing that you’ll forget them. I also store credit card numbers and credit card contact info, passwords for encrypted drives, medical information, software keys, or any confidential data that I want to keep from prying eyes.

These are just a few of the things I’ve done to ensure that my online life is safe as possible.

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Weekly Roundup – June 26, 2021

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Big news this week for me: The fourth book in my Ghost Oracle series has been released and is not available at online retailers. You can view more about it on my website at: https://rogerhyttinen.com/book/ghost-at-the-prom/

I’ve nearly finished writing Book 5 (as of yet, unnamed) so I hope to have it completed within the next couple of months.

By the way, I also send out this weekly round-up list each week to my newsletter. So if you wish to receive my weekly roundup in your email inbox each week, you can subscribe HERE.

So on to the roundup.

Weekly Round-Up – 15 Things I Thought Were Worth Sharing

  1. Why People Fall For Conspiracy Theories
  2. This is a feature I’m sure many people will be happy about. Instagram may soon let you post from desktop
  3. In support of pride month, let’s shop at local gay businesses. Here’s a list of 56 Queer-Owned Bookstores to Support
  4. I haven’t been back to the theater since the pandemic….maybe soon (or not). On going back to the movies.
  5. Bridezilla: “I Expect Everyone To Lose Weight”: Bride Sends An Insane List Of Rules To Her Bridesmaids
  6. Curiouser and Curouiser….People Swallowing Their AirPods Is Becoming Very Common
  7. ‘What’s A Scam Most People Don’t Even Realize Is A Scam? 86 People Deliver Their Insights on scams
  8. How many of these have you done or experienced? There are several for me! 95 Extremely Awkward Situations That We Can All Relate To, As Shared In This Thread
  9. Vatican condemned for ‘unprecedented interference’ in Italian bid to outlaw anti-LGBT+ hate
  10. It’s about time! Gay WW2 Hero Alan Turing Memorialized On New British £50 Note; ‘A Celebration Of His Remarkable Life
  11. “Lockdown was not a sabbatical. Don’t worry if you haven’t grown as a person during the pandemic. ”
  12. Just for fun: Parents Were In Stitches After Hearing These 41 Witty One-Liners From Their Little Ones, As Shared On Twitter
  13. From the Minimalists: 40 Life Lessons from 40 Years
  14. I’ve been thinking about the so-called productivity gurus for a while now when I came across this article: “The soothing, slightly sinister world of productivity hacks — There’s a crop of influencers romanticizing the workday. Is that a good thing?”
  15. In a TEDx Talk from 2017, LB Hannahs talks about their experience as a transgender dad

Oh, and in case you missed it: Carl Nassib Comes Out, First Active Gay NFL Player: ‘Been Meaning To Do This For A While’

From the Blog

  1. I know the names of everyone’s dog
  2. Book Update on New Novel – Ghost at the Prom
  3. Upgrading to Big Sur
  4. Wordless Wednesday: Be Mindful Where You Walk
  5. Ghost at the Prom is out!
  6. AirPods?

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AirPods?

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Today I received my new AirPods in the mail. What’s funny about this is that I told myself that I would never buy myself a pair of them. It’s not that I have anything against Apple. Hell, I’m a major fanboy in that I have an iMac, an iPad, an Apple Watch, and an iPhone. Yes, major fanboy here.

The reason I never considered them is because when I see people wearing them, it makes me think of a particular scene from a film entitled, “There’s Something About Mary.” And I’m not going to tell you what that scene is — you’ll have to watch the film or do a Google search (look up the term “ear” 😊).

Moreover, I was convinced that the buds never stay put in my ears. I once had a pair of wired earbuds, and they’d fall out constantly. But I became intrigued when I read that the AirPods Pro come with several tips so that no matter the size or shape of your ear, they will supposedly fit snugly. I began to become intrigued.

But a couple of events pushed me towards getting them. One was that my current pair of over-the-ear noise-canceling headphone cans died after many years of heavy use. Given that noise-canceling is an essential feature for me (I’ll chat more about that in another post), I began researching options, and the AirPods Pro ended up at the top of my list. But what really clinched the deal was that they were on sale last weekend for $50 off. I took that as a sign from the universe (hey — we have to justify our purchases somehow).

So far, so good. I like them. I think these will work out just fine.

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Ghost at the Prom is out!

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Not to toot my own horn (but I will anyway), the fourth book in my Ghost Oracle Series is out. It’s entitled “Ghost at the Prom” and is available in ebook and paperback format. The blurb is as follows:

At the high school prom, sixteen-year-old psychic medium Nick Michelson notices a frightening ghost who seems to be haunting a boy from another school.
The spirit threatens Nick and warns Nick not to come near him or the boy again.

Nick does a little investigating and discovers that the boy, whose name is Tyler, lost his boyfriend in a drowning accident a year ago. Now Tyler is overcome by grief and apparently is also being haunted by his dead boyfriend.

Nick decides to try to help the two of them and, in the process, uncovers several secrets surrounding the ghost’s untimely demise.

Meanwhile, the Shadow Demon has come to Gallowspine Mountains and has made itself known to Nick. The question is, why?

If you’re not familiar with the series, it follows a sixteen-year-old high school boy named Nick Michelson who has the ability to see ghosts. Using his tarot cards and the assistance of his friends (and boyfriend), he helps the ghosts with their unfinished business and often gets in huge trouble in the process. The books can read as standalone, though this is a recurring plot thread that runs throughout them, which will be tied up in the sixth book.

You shouldn’t have to wait too long for the fifth book in the series as I already have it mostly written. Keep your eye out for it in the next couple of months.

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